| Do | Don’t |
|---|---|
| Admit you miss them | “Drop by” without warning |
| Help them move in | Say, “Where do you want your special blankie?” |
| Send articles or books | Write papers for them |
| Encourage interests | Make them choose a specific major or career |
| Ask questions | Pry |
| Call every now and then | Call early in the morning |
| Give them space | Vanish |
| Get a Facebook or Instagram Account | Send endless “junk” e-mail or make numerous wall posts |
| Have “house rules” | Expect them to spend every moment at home when on vacation |
| Praise accomplishments | Reward/punish grades with money |
| Send pictures of the family pet | Let the family pet attend college, too |
| Share your experiences | Expect them to be just like you |
| Talk about alcohol, drugs, and sex | Tell them about your own indiscretions |
| Expect them to be human | Expect them to be perfect |
TAKE NOTE: Celebrate the Launch of the Heart of Huntingdon Campaign
